Brenda Schaeffer

The focus of this site is to foster an understanding of love and love addiction. It is intended to help you identify the characteristics of healthy love and addictive love and free you to live life more abundantly. As you will learn, real love is not addiction, nor is addiction love. Yet, these two experiences can come together and result in tremendous pain and suffering. My hope is that you will find at least one piece of information here that impacts your love life in a meaningful way. This site is not intended to cure specific problems. However, with increased awareness, we can begin to solve relationship problems with more compassion and with lasting effect. My hope is that this site gives you a few more pieces to life's puzzle. Let me know if and how it helps you.


 

 
Is it LOVE or is it Addiction?

The completely updated and expanded edition of the best-selling book that changed the way we think about romance and intimacy! Includes new information on the biology of addiction, impact of technology on relationships, and new chapters on sex and romance addiction.

"Brenda Schaeffer is one of those gifted recovery writers whose works someday will be regarded as classic." Patrick J. Carnes

"Her recommendations for healthy belonging are right on. An enthusiastic thumbs up!"
Jennifer Schneider, M.D.

Media Inquiries contact :


Heidi Schaeffer
612.817.0316
heidi@itsallaboutlove.com



 
LOVE or Addiction
The Power & Peril of Teen Sex and Romance
Everything you need to know about teen relationships.
Download Teen CD at Love or Addiction Teen CD
   


 
Inner Reflections
Guided Meditations by Dr. Schaeffer with serene music fromĀ  SoulFood.
 
Download at
Soulfood - Inner Reflections
   



 
New Blog Post
  Check out Dr. Schaeffer's last post on "Love - A Noun or A Verb?" on her blog. Click here to read.

Women's Spring Retreat
  May 3-5, 2013. Join us for a weekend retreat in the northwoods of WI. Relax, renew and rejevunate. For more info & to register.

Personal Growth Retreat
  Healthy Relationships is pleased to again offer it's popular "Personal Growth Retreat", September 20-21, 2013, Spooner, WI. For more info & to register

Love Addiction Training
  Starts March 9-10, 2013. 6 part course for professionals and paraprofessionals who want to enhance skills for working with couples, groups and teens. For more info & to register

El Mercurio Article
  While in Santiago, Chile, I was interviewed by "El Mercurio", the largest paper in Chile. To view the article, click here (Note - in Spanish)

Washington Times Article
  Dr. Schaeffer was interviewed by the Washington Times on the Penn State scandal.

To Read the artcle, click here

WCCO Interview
  Dr. Schaeffer was featured on a WCCO special segment on the impact of eye lashes.

To view, click here

Dr. Schaeffer on Women Speak
  Hear Dr. Schaeffer's interview with Dr. Nancy on Womenspeak.com. Listen to this intriguing interview and learn more about Womenspeak.com Click here .

Radio Interview
  Dr. Schaeffer will be on CBS Radio's The Sky. New Horizons. No Boundaries. Network Show "A Moment of Change with Sherry Gaba", 3:30 PST and will be talking about Love Addiction.

Dr. Schaeffer on HerCampus.com
  Dr. Schaeffer is featured on HerCampus.com. Click here to view.




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